Marriage: something on it.

Marriage to me is a bunch of good things. Thanks to both of you for the perfect illustration. When I was growing up I always saw both of you sharing the load equally. You both made sacrifices but never forgot to enjoy life any less. You empowered each other. Best of all you accepted each other with all yours flaws and strengths. On your 31^st anniversary I wish you double the  joy and togetherness. You both have inspired me always and I feel blessed to be your love.

I presume marriage is best when we are honest about our partner in our own minds. Sometimes we know what makes our partner comfortable and what makes them uncomfortable but we still bring that thing that annoys them most up on the table. Probably we have to prove a point that “I am right and you are wrong”. I guess that’s where we go wrong and ruin it. We should not really compete or compare our life, each one of us is unique and our story is matchless too. Comparing it definitely lead towards a lonely path full of anger and a stream of sadness.

Marriage never goose pimpled me. I just had the strong feeling that a good guy is down there waiting for me. Luck favored and we met and soon decided to get hitched. It has been a year or so and we still feel are we really married as life seems no different than before. What works for us is difficult to express in a few words. One of our strong point is that we do not try to control each other for anything. I guess that’s the reason we like each other so much. I never wanted to have a husband who after a couple of drinks expresses his issues with wife or who is somewhere happy when the wife is away. I always wanted to be the wife whom he misses badly and with whom he wants to live every day. Being such a wife is very easy. I think all we need is to accept the person he really is and vice versa. The moment I value his likes over and above my dislikes life becomes joyful and beautiful. And truth is that’s what I ultimately want. Thanks to you, like my pa, you share all load equally and never stereotype things for me. You push me to succeed and become big in life. You value my life and likes over and above the expectations of others.

To sum up, marriage to me is all about keeping love alive. When it is possible after 31 years of matrimony, I believe it is just our approach and nothing else. I want to live with you forever because I deeply enjoy and celebrate each day of our life.  I think its all about loving each no matter life is in smooth flow or rough. Everything passes but what we remember is our togetherness only.