Friday, June 29, 2012

The unknown you........




In every morning’s ray, with every passing day
I wonder where you are...
are you the smiling passer by
or some necromantic coy far away...

I often marvel what you are like 
an intense, stalwart serious kind of guy 
or a naughty cute prankster flirting with every maiden nearby
maybe a gaucherie nervous geek fully confound
or a calm composed gentleman alluring all around.

I also think what I would say.. 
when I would meet you one fine day
promise me to bear me a while..
as I might get nervous and act bizarre 
make me comfy with your smile
and I would sing you my hearts song...
  
I wonder if you ever think of me
somehow I feel yes you do
perhaps in your lonesome nights 
when u yearn for a dear one to sit beside..
or maybe when you are feeling high
and missing me to hug you tight. 
I feel I am there somewhere very near
twofold joyous with your all endeavor..



Wednesday, June 27, 2012

The Company of Girls...


It is fun & more than that it is enthralling. No phony adulation and no bogus mollycoddling… The license to be the bitch, the freedom to act jerky, the liberty to behave sloppy and the promise to gang again, well yes its actually true, girls partying together is never a plan. It is always the default celebration when all plans fail to take their shape.

The most interesting revelry of the whole gathering is that we are never out of points to discuss. Dieting, healthy food, painful pimples, water therapy, erratic fashion trends, innovation in the make-up industry, latest coiffure, deadly monthly periods, stupid exes, crazy women co-employees cum bosses or simply the dumb half population of this earth and their slightly known world.

Girls don’t drink in most cases. One reason is that the gathering is never a planned one but there is always a huge talk about the drinks. The  first encounter, the slight expression shown by men folk, the 30 ml vodka to get drunk and the 2 x 22 inches of arms to hold their drunk pretty women . The recount does sound finicky but the whole narration is one of the ecstatic events of the girl’s life. So it means a lot. The same is with the first kiss, the dream kiss, the first proposal, the dream proposal, the first crush and the realization of love and the first… no all the guys in and out of life…J

Shopping plans, catwalks, dress rehearsals, make over suggestion, and cursing the loser who broke up with the “sweetest” girl friend possible are some of the things that frequently create the bond and trust between us. Once the bond is created it does perpetuate for the evening at least. The evening gets more rollicking and euphoric with the addition of similar taste of eateries: cheese and chocolate to name a few. Seriously world let me take this opportunity to tell u all that the only flavor which we girls are mad for is chocolate (9/10) and dark chocolate and more dark chocolateJ. Rest everything or every flavor like the over hyped strawberry (which the boys love though would never accept) do not even stand a place in the competition. As for cheese it is another mouth luring ingredient and every recipe with the former in abundance only makes the dish more tempting…  J

Girls evening cum night out is a huge stress buster unlike the company with guys full of dissent from head to toe. Among girls it is no hassle and we all come to know that every one of us is in some desolation and so why cry, the world is a shitty place in any way and so let’s take a chill and just part hard.     

No taboo on dress code no restriction on speech code, wow what else any girl can ask for once in a while. So girls when feeling low and your guys are acting more of a bore then just seize the moment and set yourself free and land up with your happening gang of girls waiting just for you. 


Tuesday, June 26, 2012

The Inquest...


What’s in?  what’s out?

What’s there? what’s not?

What is more crucial?

The answer or the question..

What is more appalling?

The one truth or the shed of lies

What’s right? What’s wrong?

Who is weak? Who is strong?

Who would die? & who would survive?

Who would live? & who would sacrifice?

What is the fear of?

Life ahead or death aside

What is the joy of?

Spring around and autumn far behind

Who would win? & who would loose?

Who would smile? & who would cry?

What does the ego wants?

The little earth or the mouthful of sky

What is the purpose?

Endless inquest or discover

Where stands me? & Who am I? 

     

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

LIfe is ..to face it!!!


I am just a few months old at work and so the below realization might sound immature and idyllic cause such an opinion or attitude towards work is noticed only in a novice…. Well whatever is the case but I remember one thing that during my primary schooling days everybody around in the process of spreading wisdom (parents excluded) would always warn me!! (maybe in a caring way only), that there are umpteen hard stones, misery, tensions and frustrations waiting in the future so called adult life, so be prepared!!. Trust me I am still waiting for the above to cloud me J. I don’t slight the people who warned me and neither do I had an ever smooth life with no hardships... The share definitely has been less and so I seldom remember any.

The above is however not the remarkable insight that I intend to share. To share my experience I need to brief about my work a bit. I won’t get explicit but I have an office job with work distributed in teams and so inter team communication and cooperation is of utmost importance.

Finally the coveted experience that I want to share is I frequently get calls & mails from my teams and other team people saying Thanks for the prompt reply, Thanks for the speedy reply, your quick response is appreciated etc… While I have to follow up a lot of people (not all), seldom people have to follow up with me. After thinking a lot I realized that this is the reason why the share of tension and frustration is less in my pocket. I enjoy myself everyday because of this. The occupational hazards keep an arms length from me J.

Thus I have learnt and realized that frustration is never due to disappointment from others. It is always due to disappointment from us. There are moment of sadness, pain and suffering and it is easy to overcome them when we have that prompt attitude to face it. The more we delay this encounter the more annoyance it fetches. Every challenge has an attached challenge of building the internal motivation to face it. So lets be a more youthful and energetic. Let’s face every problem of our life today and solve it right away…..