Marriage to me is a bunch of good
things. Thanks to both of you for the perfect illustration. When I was growing
up I always saw both of you sharing the load equally. You both made sacrifices
but never forgot to enjoy life any less. You empowered each other. Best of all
you accepted each other with all yours flaws and strengths. On your 31st
anniversary I wish you double the joy and togetherness. You both have inspired me
always and I feel blessed to be your love.
I presume marriage is best when
we are honest about our partner in our own minds. Sometimes we know what makes
our partner comfortable and what makes them uncomfortable but we still bring
that thing that annoys them most up on the table. Probably we have to prove a
point that “I am right and you are wrong”. I guess that’s where we go wrong and ruin it.
We should not really compete or compare our life, each one of us is unique and
our story is matchless too. Comparing it definitely lead towards a lonely path
full of anger and a stream of sadness.
Marriage never goose pimpled me.
I just had the strong feeling that a good guy is down there waiting for me.
Luck favored and we met and soon decided to get hitched. It has been a year or
so and we still feel are we really married as life seems no different than
before. What works for us is difficult to express in a few words. One of our strong
point is that we do not try to control each other for anything. I guess that’s the
reason we like each other so much. I never wanted to have a husband who after a
couple of drinks expresses his issues with wife or who is somewhere happy when
the wife is away. I always wanted to be the wife whom he misses badly and with
whom he wants to live every day. Being such a wife is very easy. I think all we
need is to accept the person he really is and vice versa. The moment I value
his likes over and above my dislikes life becomes joyful and beautiful. And
truth is that’s what I ultimately want. Thanks to you, like my pa, you share
all load equally and never stereotype things for me. You push me to succeed and
become big in life. You value my life and likes over and above the expectations
of others.
To sum up, marriage to me is all
about keeping love alive. When it is possible after 31 years of matrimony, I
believe it is just our approach and nothing else. I want to live with you
forever because I deeply enjoy and celebrate each day of our life. I think its all about loving each no matter life is in smooth flow or rough. Everything passes but what we remember is our togetherness only.
