LIfe is ..to face it!!!

I am just a few months old at work and so the below realization might sound immature and idyllic cause such an opinion or attitude towards work is noticed only in a novice…. Well whatever is the case but I remember one thing that during my primary schooling days everybody around in the process of spreading wisdom (parents excluded) would always warn me!! (maybe in a caring way only), that there are umpteen hard stones, misery, tensions and frustrations waiting in the future so called adult life, so be prepared!!. Trust me I am still waiting for the above to cloud me J. I don’t slight the people who warned me and neither do I had an ever smooth life with no hardships... The share definitely has been less and so I seldom remember any.

The above is however not the remarkable insight that I intend to share. To share my experience I need to brief about my work a bit. I won’t get explicit but I have an office job with work distributed in teams and so inter team communication and cooperation is of utmost importance.

Finally the coveted experience that I want to share is I frequently get calls & mails from my teams and other team people saying Thanks for the prompt reply, Thanks for the speedy reply, your quick response is appreciated etc… While I have to follow up a lot of people (not all), seldom people have to follow up with me. After thinking a lot I realized that this is the reason why the share of tension and frustration is less in my pocket. I enjoy myself everyday because of this. The occupational hazards keep an arms length from me J.

Thus I have learnt and realized that frustration is never due to disappointment from others. It is always due to disappointment from us. There are moment of sadness, pain and suffering and it is easy to overcome them when we have that prompt attitude to face it. The more we delay this encounter the more annoyance it fetches. Every challenge has an attached challenge of building the internal motivation to face it. So lets be a more youthful and energetic. Let’s face every problem of our life today and solve it right away…..